Today, my brother’s & I were discussing dating/relationships in general in this day in age.
We were talking about how shallow many relationships have become. How people are jumping into matrimony with no sense of “team”, selflessness, humbleness, or true meaning of sacrifice that a marriage requires.
Last but not least, we were talking about how “stupid” girls have become.
(Now, before I continue, we are well aware there are many immature guys out there with little-to-no self control, nor true respect for women.)
I was telling them how I’ve heard several times from ladies how they’re “so done” cause of the way “he” treated them. Yet, that very girl slept with him repetitively since the first week & never consistently gave him anything to respect.
Again, I’m not condoning the male behavior, but I am saying that I am well aware of how easy girls have become.
We want attention & will do anything to get it. We are so thrilled to get him looking our way that any hint of interest from the male species keeps us hanging on, even if it’s negative attention & an unhealthy situation.
Now, this is my stance on the topic. I was curious for the male perspective to see if guys could genuinely like & respect a female who throws herself at them/”plays games”/waits on them hand & foot/is so willing to wait around on them to be “ready” to jump into a committed relationship but will sleep with them in the meantime cause, you know, he really likes you & all… 😏
Their response: “A lot of our guy friends have said how dumb & easy girls have become these days.”
They went on to explain how guys are well-aware of the crazy crap girls pull & how even when they say they’re “done” & “leaving”… That they’ll be back.
So, ladies… You havta give people something to respect. Wanna know why most guys are “douche bags” & get away with it? CAUSE GIRL’S STILL GO FOR THEM & don’t mind being treated a certain way cause they get the guy.
Guys don’t have to be gentlemen anymore cause the female population (not all, just most) will still fall for them. Look for the one who is a gentleman & treats you like a queen cause he wants to & (to a degree) HAS to cause you demand that kind of respect & loyalty. Stay classy.
Don’t give it all up, walk away & then come right back to him & keep wondering why he doesn’t wanna commit to you.
Is it him treating you like crap? Or you allowing him to treat you like crap?
Think on it.